” I Never Lose… I Either Win or Learn”

Dear Reader:

During the first few days each year ( while teaching) my initial strategy ( besides getting to know each student’s name) was to start reeling in my eighth graders with ” Strange but true” stories around historical events and people in SC and American History.

Teenagers love learning from these types of historical stories, not just memorizing a cold isolated fact, that like a dangling participle or modifier, never connects back to the objective you want them to take away from the lesson,

But their ” homework” assignment was different-giving the students a life quote each day (on the board) that allowed them the freedom to interpret it as they, themselves, perceived the meaning personally… no right or wrong-just as long as the assignment was done… and then being open and respectful to other classmates’ interpretations. That is how learning is expanded… our minds being open to new ideas.

My first quote each year was the title quote today. ” ” I Never Lose…I Either Win or LEARN.”

It is amazing how quickly I could gather information on the depth of each student’s level of deeper comprehension and how it applies to our lives… learning beyond the classroom.

Or as we teachers were repeatedly reminding our classes… ” Life is the most important teacher… ” Be a Lifetime Learner!”

And this advice also, of course, applied to we teachers …especially after leaving the classroom… in fact I think this latest personal challenge ( that quickly transformed my world as I knew it…) has reinforced this positive philosophy of life.

I listen to the aides who come in daily bringing medicine, meals, and lots of stories as the bonding of friendship begins… laughter and compassion prevail. And learning each new world of others’ lives remind me how blessed I truly am and what a gift these new friends and supporters are to me.

The way we live our lives does come down to choice, attitude, and positivity.

Each day now I try to venture out and explore more of the premises-even finding the secret short cuts …cutting across the courtyard. I went to the front desk to pick up packages ordered on-line… like these comfortable boots-my Christmas present to me. ( And to my surprise… someone had put these Christmas bells on the outside door knob of my outside garden apartment door!

Today is my favorite day-Winnie the Pooh

AMEN!

About Becky Dingle

I was born a Tarheel but ended up a Sandlapper. My grandparents were cotton farmers in Laurens, South Carolina and it was in my grandmother’s house that my love of storytelling began beside an old Franklin stove. When I graduated from Laurens High School, I attended Erskine College (Due West of what?) and would later get my Masters Degree in Education/Social Studies from Charleston Southern. I am presently an adjunct professor/clinical supervisor at CSU and have also taught at the College of Charleston. For 28 years I taught Social Studies through storytelling. My philosophy matched Rudyard Kipling’s quote: “If history were taught in the form of stories, it would never be forgotten.” Today I still spread this message through workshops and presentations throughout the state. The secret of success in teaching social studies is always in the story. I want to keep learning and being surprised by life…it is the greatest teacher. Like Kermit said, “When you’re green you grow, when you’re ripe you rot.”
This entry was posted in Uncategorized. Bookmark the permalink.

3 Responses to ” I Never Lose… I Either Win or Learn”

  1. Love your techniques of teaching history…your students were so blessed. And the quote for today is very true…it’s all in the person’s own perspective. I know you are still teaching everyday to everyone around you…love you.

  2. Kim Smyth says:

    I’m a lifelong learner as well! They say you learn something new every day! I’m so happy you are at peace and in comfort at your new place! Nice new boots!

Leave a Reply