The Secret Above Happiness…

Happiness is a Mood… Positivity is a MINDSET!

Dear Reader:

By now in our lives we have come to recognize that happiness, like sorrow, is a mood and neither last a lifetime.

Our moods change like the weather. Yet some people do seem able to maintain an aura of positivity around them that draws us like a magnet to the bright sunshine.

As much as most of us look forward to Christmas and immediately associate it with the happiest day of the year… Christmas also brings added stress in our lives if we forget the spiritual significance of this special day and succumb to today’s commercialization.

Haven’t we all commented at one time or another… about someone we know who seems happy all the time. Actually since happiness is a mood… it will fade away as all moods do. Instead people we are drawn to for their upbeat approach to life , in actuality, have a positive mindset and that is embedded deep within their being-the people who lift our spirits.

Tommy, my youngest son, arrived last night with Pip, and surprised me with a real six- pack of Coors Light Beer. It was Tommy who gave me the miniature six-pack Coors beer as a Christmas Tree ornament last year!

And the best surprise was … he got PIZZA to accompany it! I had been craving pizza ( actually junk food.)

We humans are funny… we land in a setting where all nutritional meals are provided and after a week we find ourselves craving pizza, sub sandwiches, Chick-Filet and all the other less healthy foods. ( But, oh so good!) Human nature is always a mystery and honestly quite laughable.

Aren’t there so many Christmas special advertisements that make us stop and smile. ” Joy Shared” has become the number one favorite commercial.

Octogenarians finding joy again when a friend gets three portable sleds off Amazon! The exhilarating feeling of freedom as they hold hands – memories of youth ( young girls) flying down the snowy slope as fast as their sleds.

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We got started filling up the second door card wall with Ka Stevenson’s precious Christmas card

My beautiful Chapel of Hope at Christmas Time…. the chapel that started the blog post and changed my life forever! I

It was the Chapel of Hope that gave me my positive mindset… I was filled with new spiritual understandings!And I never looked back! Merry Christmas!

Artist Joan Turner created, and painted a new colorful steeple!

Merry Christmas to One and All!

About Becky Dingle

I was born a Tarheel but ended up a Sandlapper. My grandparents were cotton farmers in Laurens, South Carolina and it was in my grandmother’s house that my love of storytelling began beside an old Franklin stove. When I graduated from Laurens High School, I attended Erskine College (Due West of what?) and would later get my Masters Degree in Education/Social Studies from Charleston Southern. I am presently an adjunct professor/clinical supervisor at CSU and have also taught at the College of Charleston. For 28 years I taught Social Studies through storytelling. My philosophy matched Rudyard Kipling’s quote: “If history were taught in the form of stories, it would never be forgotten.” Today I still spread this message through workshops and presentations throughout the state. The secret of success in teaching social studies is always in the story. I want to keep learning and being surprised by life…it is the greatest teacher. Like Kermit said, “When you’re green you grow, when you’re ripe you rot.”
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2 Responses to The Secret Above Happiness…

  1. Gin-g Edwards says:

    💚🤎💚

  2. Deb says:

    Merry, Merry Christmas to you, Becky! May your days be sunny and bright and filled with the spirit of Christmas all year ’round.

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