When Emptiness and Nothingness Provide Meaningfulness …

” Tale of the Ringless Ring”-(Thomas Moore)

Dear Reader:

A couple of days ago, I came across this ” parable” called ” The Tale of the Ringless Ring.” * It elevated my consciousness level in a new direction for me.

Once there was a beloved and greatly revered spiritual leader who lived in a small village.

One day a friend and devoted member of the leader’s spiritual community, came to him and announced sadly that his work was sending him far away to live and that their paths would probably never cross again.

He then asked the spiritual leader if he might consider giving him a ring he had admired on the leader’s finger over their long time together… it would be a precious token to remember him by.

Thoughtfully the leader paused, stared at his ring, and then replied,” Why don’t I keep my ring. Then everyday , when you look at your hand and see an empty finger, without my ring, you will think of me.”

This parable describes a perfect example of ” emptiness.” Instead of seeing something, one sees nothing and it is the ” nothing” that is meaningful.

Several responses to the story were interesting but I especially liked one woman, named Leslie’s observation.

When she was about eight, one day she asked her father about the universe and how it began. Her father told her that before there was an universe, there was nothing.

She remembered replying, ” But daddy, there has to be something for there to be nothing.” ( ” Out of the mouths of babes.” )

In other words… nothing is always something. But it was the word ” empty” that got my neurons lighting in memory from a sermon written for my favorite Christmas movie.

The Christmas sermon that David Niven delivers as the Bishop in The Bishop’s Wife is called ” The Empty Stocking” -perhaps it best illustrates the true meaning of when nothing is a big big SOMETHING!

The Empty Stocking”

” Tonight I want to tell you the story of an empty stocking.”

Once upon a midnight clear , there was a child’s cry, a blazing star hung over a stable, and wise men who came with birthday gifts. ”

” We haven’t forgotten that night down the centuries. We celebrate it with stars on Christmas trees,with the sound of a bell, and with gifts. But ESPECIALLY with gifts…no family member is forgotten, adult or child.

All the stockings are filled, all that is, except one. And we have even forgotten to hang it up. The stocking for the child born in a manger- it’s His Birthday we’re celebrating, Don’t let us ever forget that!

Let us ask ourselves what He would wish for most. And then , let each put in his share… LOVING KINDNESS, WARM HEARTS, and a STRETCHED OUT HAND of TOLERANCE. All the shining gifts that make peace on earth.”

So until tomorrow… There is no nothingness on this planet … unless, we have no faith in the GREATEST SOMETHINGNESS!

Today is my favorite day-Winnie the Pooh

How I love my yellows!

About Becky Dingle

I was born a Tarheel but ended up a Sandlapper. My grandparents were cotton farmers in Laurens, South Carolina and it was in my grandmother’s house that my love of storytelling began beside an old Franklin stove. When I graduated from Laurens High School, I attended Erskine College (Due West of what?) and would later get my Masters Degree in Education/Social Studies from Charleston Southern. I am presently an adjunct professor/clinical supervisor at CSU and have also taught at the College of Charleston. For 28 years I taught Social Studies through storytelling. My philosophy matched Rudyard Kipling’s quote: “If history were taught in the form of stories, it would never be forgotten.” Today I still spread this message through workshops and presentations throughout the state. The secret of success in teaching social studies is always in the story. I want to keep learning and being surprised by life…it is the greatest teacher. Like Kermit said, “When you’re green you grow, when you’re ripe you rot.”
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