Retrieving Childhood Memories…

Dear Reader:

The other day… Michael Buble was on a talk show and was more animated talking about his family than any career topic. He admitted that he will catch a ” Red Eye” to get home …and have only a day and night to spend with his wife and four children before racing back to his latest singing gig.

If the children get wind that he has shown up during the night he awakens in bed with his wife and four kids… nothing makes him happier … nothing. He admitted that the family sleeping together some nights is probably frowned upon by some psychologist but instead he suggested that for his family … this closeness is making beautiful memories from their childhood into their later adulthood.

When you think about it… historically… separate sleeping quarters (that modern families take for granted) is a relatively new phenomenon… from caveman on …families slept together for protection, comfort – warmth throughout colonial periods – World War II. Frontier and immigrant children slept together … it was all they knew from their ” old” countries.

Maybe some of the modern day feelings of anxiety and isolation, too many Americans are feeling, come from the concept that more is better… more bedrooms, private space when smaller and togetherness should be the goal.

I think that is why parents send their children to camps today …where they get to live in small ” houses” cabins or tents… laugh together, sleep in secure close quarters and share a camaraderie unattainable in their everyday lives.

It is sure making the Dingle boys euphorically happy!

Lachlan in red following his blue counselor!
Always a happy Rutledge!

And sun and 90’s brought Eva Cate and her precious friend ( Emma) to their pool to enjoy the first sunny day in several days… it was a day of smiles for everyone!

Cool sunglasses girls!!

My unexpected glimpse at the sheer beauty of the sun returning happened Friday evening… I got caught by the train going through town and gave out a big sigh… tired and ready to get home but then it happened …one beautiful ray lit up the train and the park grass turned to a golf course green… the clouds parted for the blue skies emerging… after a week of rain and cloudy skies summer was appearing again.

So until tomorrow… A beautiful God Wink and all is right with the world.

Today is my favorite day… Winnie the Pooh

Goodbye mushrooms… the sun has returned!

About Becky Dingle

I was born a Tarheel but ended up a Sandlapper. My grandparents were cotton farmers in Laurens, South Carolina and it was in my grandmother’s house that my love of storytelling began beside an old Franklin stove. When I graduated from Laurens High School, I attended Erskine College (Due West of what?) and would later get my Masters Degree in Education/Social Studies from Charleston Southern. I am presently an adjunct professor/clinical supervisor at CSU and have also taught at the College of Charleston. For 28 years I taught Social Studies through storytelling. My philosophy matched Rudyard Kipling’s quote: “If history were taught in the form of stories, it would never be forgotten.” Today I still spread this message through workshops and presentations throughout the state. The secret of success in teaching social studies is always in the story. I want to keep learning and being surprised by life…it is the greatest teacher. Like Kermit said, “When you’re green you grow, when you’re ripe you rot.”
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