” Do Not Put Out Your Fire Because Someone Else Doesn’t Understand Your Flame.”

How many times have we experienced this… ” everyone” is never going to understand your interests and dreams all the time. But this should never stop you from your personal goals and happiness. God understands them!

Dear Reader:

Never let your fire go out spark by spark in the swamps of the ” not quite, the not yet, and the not at all. ”

Each of us must follow our own paths that match the unique insights and dreams that reveal who we really are… never imitating someone else’s personal revelation or dismissing it… but respecting it… like we desire others to do for us.

And how blessed I am! Yesterday Mandy, Doodle, and Lassie went back over to the house to check the water pipes and then secure them before the deep freeze hitting record lows for our area of the state arrive this weekend …They will also bring ” Big Red” inside…( my beloved red geranium that was waiting on me after my first breast cancer surgery in 2008. No card or ID was on it… but it has never left me… for the past sixteen years it has bloomed and bloomed and bloomed… never deserting me… so it is going inside until the temperatures get above … below freezing nights and early morning temps!

They are also bringing precious items (from family long ago) that mean the world to me! They will be exhausted, no doubt, when they leave! Another dent in the on-going arduous process of moving! I feel so useless watching others give up their time so generously to help me and our family… I am so lucky… so blessed.

I am having some more medical issues that require dressings and added medical attention. Another obstacle, another challenge that tests my faith …allowing God to pick up the lantern and guide me ( once more) through it .

So until tomorrow… thank so many of you for responding with memories of the happy role Winnie the Pooh played in your life and as Jo Dufford reminded me… especially on Pooh’s birthday ” Today is my favorite day!”

Look who surprised Jo Dufford and her beloved granddaughter, Colby, one Christmas????????

Today January 19th is Robert E Lee’s birthday and my ” insanely talented” nephew – jazz guitarist Lee Barbour!!!!!

HAPPY BIRTHDAY 🎈🎊🎉 LEE!

PS. … Stay tuned tomorrow… changes are still happening in new additions here at The Palms…under Mandy’s creative foresight!

About Becky Dingle

I was born a Tarheel but ended up a Sandlapper. My grandparents were cotton farmers in Laurens, South Carolina and it was in my grandmother’s house that my love of storytelling began beside an old Franklin stove. When I graduated from Laurens High School, I attended Erskine College (Due West of what?) and would later get my Masters Degree in Education/Social Studies from Charleston Southern. I am presently an adjunct professor/clinical supervisor at CSU and have also taught at the College of Charleston. For 28 years I taught Social Studies through storytelling. My philosophy matched Rudyard Kipling’s quote: “If history were taught in the form of stories, it would never be forgotten.” Today I still spread this message through workshops and presentations throughout the state. The secret of success in teaching social studies is always in the story. I want to keep learning and being surprised by life…it is the greatest teacher. Like Kermit said, “When you’re green you grow, when you’re ripe you rot.”
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1 Response to ” Do Not Put Out Your Fire Because Someone Else Doesn’t Understand Your Flame.”

  1. Gin-g Edwards says:

    Becky…so thankful for you for all the folks who are helping out. We are keeping you in our prayers. Fred and I were in an accident coming from our mtn trip. It’s a long story for another time …we were both hurt but will be ok
    We have been in Clemson with Blake and Emily. Our car was totaled but we made it home yesterday after spending 4 days with them. We will be ok. Just wanted you to know why I might not be over to see you for a little while. Love you. We are praying for you.

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