Finding Our Special Space and Place…

When a flower doesn’t bloom, you change the location and or environment for the flower … but not the flower itself.

Dear Reader:

Being a total novice in gardening ( a member of the ” Know Nothing” ” Wanna Be” Gardening Class of 2013… ) I learned a very important lesson about plants that first initial backyard garden season …that still resonates with me.

My mentors–Doodle and Anne-both taught me that when a plant doesn’t do well in a certain spot … ( after you have tried everything possible to accommodate its needs… the strongest conclusion is… it needs to be uprooted and moved to another location.) With plants, as well as people, the adage ” location, location, location” rings true in all forms of ” real estate.”

And the wisdom of their advice has proven true repeatedly over the the last decade. To my surprise… it is sometimes something as simple as re-planting it a few feet farther down the path – where a tree casts more shade and suddenly the plant is blooming all over itself! Just needed a little more shade…

It got me thinking of all the places I have lived before moving to the Lowcountry… Fayetteville ( Ft Bragg) never felt like home to me as a child and youth. Laurens was better since my cousins and family lived there and we were bonded by the time spent earlier…while mother recuperated and re-grouped following the loss of her left hand to bone cancer.

Lots of love… but I remember feeling home -sick in the red dirt clay of the agrarian upcountry… it just wasn’t me. Intuitively I knew this would never be my ” forever” home.

Than after college… Brooke and I took the plunge and moved to the Lowcountry/we both fell in love with it and this beautiful “God’s Country” that we never left… Charleston, Summerville, and Walterboro… we both married and raised families in this piece of paradise…reuniting and forming the Ya’s years later! Our special friends -sharing memories from past and present …and dreams for the future!

So until tomorrow… We have all heard we should ” Bloom Where We Are Planted” but sometimes we can’t bloom – because we are simply in the wrong place… instead with courage we must uproot ourselves and discover where our individual, unique roots will give back the best we have to offer…for the most good!

Today is my favorite day. Winnie the Pooh

Yesterday was a ” Stop and Drop” Day as I went from visiting Ben at Wellmore ( Pepsi and crackers delivery time) to telling the Turners goodbye …as they squeeze in one last vacation before schools starts, to Tommy and Kaitlyn’s new law office in N Charleston, and happily home where we finally got beautiful rain!

Ben’s cute baby picture in his room
Lee followed my visit up with his … getting new mobile phone for dad… old one passed away recently.
Mandy’s front steps arrangement-definitely in the right spot-happy!
A goodbye moment with Eva Cate before last vacation
Family’s flower bouquet for Tommy and Kaitlyn ‘s new law office with Kaitlyn’s beautiful niece Lily… about to return to Boston for college
Tommy’s office / soon to be decorated office but the furniture is in-yeah!
Rain! Glorious Rain!
Happiness Is…

About Becky Dingle

I was born a Tarheel but ended up a Sandlapper. My grandparents were cotton farmers in Laurens, South Carolina and it was in my grandmother’s house that my love of storytelling began beside an old Franklin stove. When I graduated from Laurens High School, I attended Erskine College (Due West of what?) and would later get my Masters Degree in Education/Social Studies from Charleston Southern. I am presently an adjunct professor/clinical supervisor at CSU and have also taught at the College of Charleston. For 28 years I taught Social Studies through storytelling. My philosophy matched Rudyard Kipling’s quote: “If history were taught in the form of stories, it would never be forgotten.” Today I still spread this message through workshops and presentations throughout the state. The secret of success in teaching social studies is always in the story. I want to keep learning and being surprised by life…it is the greatest teacher. Like Kermit said, “When you’re green you grow, when you’re ripe you rot.”
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2 Responses to Finding Our Special Space and Place…

  1. Gin-g Edwards says:

    And sometimes when you move you need a little of “root boost”..flowers and people…

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