People, Place… LOVE

Dear Reader:

As a writer, like the main character in this unusual perception of life, love, and endings that don’t end ( On Fire Island) … Julia Morse is spending her last summer on her beloved island… there is only one catch… she has already passed.

Until Brooke and I moved to the Lowcountry ( Charleston) I had never felt that I was home…the geography of Eastern North Carolina and the Piedmont of South Carolina … had me living among immediate and extended family members whom I loved but there was never a deep loving attachment to the land itself. In fact… I felt detached… homesick for a place I had never seen.

My love affair with the Lowcountry actually started when I was in high school and visited USC for a high school weekend orientation… knew I wasn’t going there but a friend was driving and we had decided to visit her sister in Charleston and skip most of the orientation.

It was early March and still cold and blustery in Columbia but the sun started coming out around Orangeburg and suddenly the I -26 interstate was bleached in sun… and speaking of ” bleached” … the closer we got to Charleston the lighter the roads got-going from dark asphalt to ” white” highways that seemed to promise-sun, beaches, oceans… I was home… at last.

It took me a few years to turn that benchmark weekend into my beloved home but it happened… and my ( now adult) children have thanked me profusely over the years for making that choice… they too love the Lowcountry… heart and soul!

How many times have we described our beloved home as a piece of heaven or God ‘s home. So when thirty-seven year old Julia has a decision to make … follow the light and her grandmothers voice at the end of the proverbial tunnel or spend one last summer on Fire Island… her piece of heaven on earth with everyone she has loved totally and completely …she chooses one last summer.

You can only imagine how many diverse new forms of love, gentle humor, sweet sadness, new perceptions, deeper understandings develop this last summer for the people closest to Julia and the places that shaped her.

So until tomorrow…

The author ( Jane Rosen) dedicated her book ” For everyone who’s ever missed the ferry by one minute.” ( touching and poignant)

Today is my favorite day-Winnie the Pooh

Going to Vespers and church gathering Sunday
Lachlan is having a ball
Finally the camp camera caught both bro’s together!
After Sunday Services came Sunday afternoon when they hiked to Nibble Nook for ice cream

Rutledge wrote home to Mollie and Walsh saying …he had never felt closer to God than at Camp Ridgecrest! 💗

In the last few days I have heard from many of you readers with such positive and encouraging comments… it has turned my days upside down with happiness … and one reader and I discovered we are related briefly through marriage but more importantly through friendship! Thanks Angela for the connection discovery and all because you wanted to know the history behind the Pawleys Island Shell. God Wink!

Carol… thanks for the memories… brought a smile to my face!! And we have several new subscribers… that always makes me happy!

Yesterday Ben told me that he is now the new ” Pastor” at their little church group… by default …since the assigned minister has been in absentia… told Ben his new name was Pastor Barbour … telling his story!

Yesterday I also hugged Eva Cate and Jake since the family is leaving for their vacation Wednesday… Eva Cate will miss her Winnie…

Eva and Winnie-soulmates!
Just as I was pulling out yesterday… Jake told me to wait and ran back in the house… holding out his hand with something in it… he had been fishing and got lucky catching lots of fish… under one fish on the embankment was a shiny penny… Jake wanted to give it to me! My sweet boy… Lucky Penny will ride with me in the car wherever I go! Thank you Jake! ( We look like two cream dream popsicles! 😂)

About Becky Dingle

I was born a Tarheel but ended up a Sandlapper. My grandparents were cotton farmers in Laurens, South Carolina and it was in my grandmother’s house that my love of storytelling began beside an old Franklin stove. When I graduated from Laurens High School, I attended Erskine College (Due West of what?) and would later get my Masters Degree in Education/Social Studies from Charleston Southern. I am presently an adjunct professor/clinical supervisor at CSU and have also taught at the College of Charleston. For 28 years I taught Social Studies through storytelling. My philosophy matched Rudyard Kipling’s quote: “If history were taught in the form of stories, it would never be forgotten.” Today I still spread this message through workshops and presentations throughout the state. The secret of success in teaching social studies is always in the story. I want to keep learning and being surprised by life…it is the greatest teacher. Like Kermit said, “When you’re green you grow, when you’re ripe you rot.”
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2 Responses to People, Place… LOVE

  1. Beth Brewer says:

    Nothing compares to the Lowcountry but especially Summerville. Have enjoyed your garden & grandchildren pictures. They are growing quickly (both kids & garden!)

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