Things to Remember As We Go Through Life

Dear Reader:

Speaking for all human beings… don’t we wish that an operating manual came attached to newborns? …Instructions on how (not) to just survive the first year…but our whole lives?

Instructions like “Turn here, take a right, avoid congestion on third street, take a drive in the country, stop and smell the roses, don’t respond, remain calm,  laugh more, pray more, love more, be still.”

Some days I truly wish I came with directions because I feel that I am just spinning around and around instead of moving forward down my path. Ever had one of those days?

It is during times like this that I have to remind myself…that I am the book I so desperately seek. God is the author and every minute I breathe another sentence is being written in it.

As the main character in my own story…I can take the plot in a lot of different directions…depending on the choices I make.

Yesterday I came across a short message on remembering  what is most important in our personal stories… while editing the rest out of our life’s legacy as empty baggage.

“Things to Remember”

I find what I look for in people. If I look for God, I find God. If I look for bad qualities, I find them. I, in a sense, select what I expect, and I receive it.

A life without challenges would be like going to school without lessons to learn. Challenges come not to depress or get me down, but to help me master, grow, unfold and bloom thereby.

In the Father’s wise and loving plan for me, no burden can fall upon me, no emergency can arise, no grief can overtake me, before I am given the grace and strength to meet them.

A rich, full life is not determined by outer circumstances and relationships. These can be contributory to it, but they cannot be the source. I am happy or unhappy because of what I think and feel.

I can never lose anything that belongs to me, nor can I posses what is not really mine.

I should never run from a problem: either it will chase me or I will run into another just like it, although it may have a different face or name.

I should have no concern for tomorrow. Today is the yesterday over which I had concern.

I should never keep banging on a closed door: Instead I should wait for it to open and then go through it.

I should always remember: A person who has come into my life has arrived either to teach me something, or to learn something from me.

( Source: BizMove: Inspirational Thoughts)

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I have also come to the realization that it is not enough to simply live our stories…but we must also share them. As Ira Glass has said, ” Great stories happen to those who tell them.”

Think of all the books we have read about other people’s lives throughout our life and what an inspiration and impact they have had on it. Everyone’s story has the same potential to help others…if we just tell it. Familiarity doesn’t breed contempt…I think… it brings connection. Let’s connect through telling our stories!

So until tomorrow…We must all learn to connect our lives through sharing our stories with each other…it is still the only resource humanity has for binding ourselves with humanity.

“Today is my favorite day”  Winnie the Pooh

*An early morning walk in the garden, with the scent of freshly blooming gardenias, has me feeling so lucky and happy to be alive on such a beautiful morning!

*And a VERY HAPPY BIRTHDAY to our Loveable YA LIBBY! WE LOVE YOU!

(Libby is the second to the right…beautiful inside and out!)

 

 

 

 

About Becky Dingle

I was born a Tarheel but ended up a Sandlapper. My grandparents were cotton farmers in Laurens, South Carolina and it was in my grandmother’s house that my love of storytelling began beside an old Franklin stove. When I graduated from Laurens High School, I attended Erskine College (Due West of what?) and would later get my Masters Degree in Education/Social Studies from Charleston Southern. I am presently an adjunct professor/clinical supervisor at CSU and have also taught at the College of Charleston. For 28 years I taught Social Studies through storytelling. My philosophy matched Rudyard Kipling’s quote: “If history were taught in the form of stories, it would never be forgotten.” Today I still spread this message through workshops and presentations throughout the state. The secret of success in teaching social studies is always in the story. I want to keep learning and being surprised by life…it is the greatest teacher. Like Kermit said, “When you’re green you grow, when you’re ripe you rot.”
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2 Responses to Things to Remember As We Go Through Life

  1. bcparkison says:

    I enjoy hearing your stories. Keep it up please.
    Now about gardenias…..I love them but don’t have much “luck” growing them. Years ago ,growing up,we had large bushes but they were terrible with white flies. Just don’t touch the petals. Like magnolias they turn brown.. UGH

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