Practicing Soul Care…

Dear Reader:

I think we all forget that just like our bodies…our souls need nourishment and healing too. If we have annual physicals…what about annual soul “physicals?”

Do we stop and re-think life based on what our soul is telling us to do…or do we stay too busy to stop and simply listen?

All of us question, at one time or another…if we really can accept a God who becomes a man and models for us how life should be lived…really? Haven’t we all, in our darkest times, questioned the “practicality” of this thinking?

Of all the stories I have ever read explaining the transformation of God into man….this story explains it to me better than any other…you might have heard it before…but think about it this time as you read the story…the best metaphor I ever heard.

The Man and the Birds

 Now the man to whom I’m going to introduce you was not a scrooge. He was a kind, decent, mostly good man, generous to his family and upright in his dealings with other men. But he just didn’t believe all that incarnation stuff which the churches proclaim at Christmas time. It just didn’t make sense, and he was too honest to pretend otherwise. He just couldn’t swallow the Jesus story, about God coming to earth as a man. 

“I’m truly sorry to distress you,” he told his wife, “but I’m not going with you to church this Christmas Eve.” He said he’d feel like a hypocrite and that he’d much rather just stay at home, but that he would wait up for them. And so he stayed, and they went to the midnight service.

Shortly after the family drove away in the car, snow began to fall. He went to the window to watch the flurries getting heavier and heavier and then went back to his fireside chair and began to read his newspaper. Minutes later, he was startled by a thudding sound. Then another, and then another. Sort of a thump or a thud. At first he thought someone must be throwing snowballs against his living room window.

But when he went to the front door to investigate, he found a flock of birds huddled miserably in the snow. They’d been caught in the storm and, in a desperate search for shelter, had tried to fly through his large landscape window. Well, he couldn’t let the poor creatures lie there and freeze, so he remembered the barn where his children stabled their pony. That would provide a warm shelter, if he could direct the birds to it.

Quickly he put on a coat and galoshes and tramped through the deepening snow to the barn. He opened the doors wide and turned on a light, but the birds did not come in. He figured food would entice them in. So he hurried back to the house, fetched bread crumbs and sprinkled them on the snow, making a trail to the yellow-lighted, wide-open doorway of the stable. But to his dismay, the birds ignored the bread crumbs and continued to flap around helplessly in the snow.

He tried catching them. He tried shooing them into the barn by walking around them waving his arms. Instead, they scattered in every direction, except into the warm, lighted barn. And then, he realized, that they were afraid of him. To them, he reasoned, I am a strange and terrifying creature. If only I could think of someway to let them know that they can trust me – that I am not trying to hurt them, but to help them. But how, because any move he made tended to frighten and confuse them. They just would not follow. They would not be led or shooed because they feared him.

“If only I could be a bird,” he thought to himself, “and mingle with them and speak their language. Then I could tell them not to be afraid. Then I could show them the way to the to the safe, warm barn. But I would have to be one of them so they could see, and hear and understand.”

At that moment, the church bells began to ring. The sound reached his ears above the sounds of the wind. And he stood there listening to the bells – listening to the bells pealing the glad tidings of Christmas. And he sank to his knees in the snow.

– WRITTEN BY PAUL HARVEY –

So until tomorrow…Every day, no matter our physical circumstance…let us all be “well in our souls.”

“Today is my favorite day”  Winnie the Pooh

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Happy Birthday John! To my favorite (and only) but still favorite ever son-in-law! You always open your home  to everyone else’s birthday and special celebrations…now we want to all open our hearts  to you today on your birthday!

Today is game day! I hope everyone’s favorite team performs well and everyone has fun! Clemson is facing a very challenging opponent at Virginia Tech in Blacksburg, Virginia this evening. Tigers…I hope everyone plays to the best of their ability! Go Clemson!

About Becky Dingle

I was born a Tarheel but ended up a Sandlapper. My grandparents were cotton farmers in Laurens, South Carolina and it was in my grandmother’s house that my love of storytelling began beside an old Franklin stove. When I graduated from Laurens High School, I attended Erskine College (Due West of what?) and would later get my Masters Degree in Education/Social Studies from Charleston Southern. I am presently an adjunct professor/clinical supervisor at CSU and have also taught at the College of Charleston. For 28 years I taught Social Studies through storytelling. My philosophy matched Rudyard Kipling’s quote: “If history were taught in the form of stories, it would never be forgotten.” Today I still spread this message through workshops and presentations throughout the state. The secret of success in teaching social studies is always in the story. I want to keep learning and being surprised by life…it is the greatest teacher. Like Kermit said, “When you’re green you grow, when you’re ripe you rot.”
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3 Responses to Practicing Soul Care…

  1. Rachel Edwards says:

    Love the Paul Harvey story. ..beautiful…

    On Sep 30, 2017 6:06 AM, “Chapel of Hope Stories” wrote:

    > Becky Dingle posted: ” Dear Reader: I think we all forget that just like > our bodies…our souls need nourishment and healing too. If we have annual > physicals…what about annual soul “physicals?” Do we stop and re-think > life based on what our soul is telling us to do.” >

    • Becky Dingle says:

      It explains the transformation in such a beautiful simple way….always loved Paul Harvey stories. Used so many of his stories in our social studies classes…he loved history!

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      Dear Reader: I think we all forget that just like our bodies…our souls need nourishment and healing too. If we have annual …

      Love the Paul Harvey story. ..beautiful…

  2. bcparkison says:

    Great story and don’t we miss Paul Harvey?
    Happy Birthday John!!!

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