Still Finding the “Little” in Summerville

Dear Reader:

Yesterday evening I started reflecting back on all the activities of the first two days of this week and I felt this nostalgic love for my “little” town sweep over me unexpectedly.

I love showing it off and having Mollie come accompany me around town Monday just brought back renewed feelings of love and appreciation for the ‘ville’ I proudly call home.

There’s no denying that Summerville has changed pretty drastically since I moved here in the early seventies…getting my first teaching job at Alston Junior High. It was still a “sleepy little town” at the time with lots of young teachers arriving in droves since we were the “baby boomers.”

Alston Junior High was the only “Junior High” in the district. Before I left the school district in 2003…there were no junior high’s…just middle schools and they numbered (at that time) five.

My own children, who grew up in Summerville and attended its outstanding schools, now all live in and around Mt. Pleasant. It is funny to me to hear them complain about the congestive traffic and crowded conditions in Summerville…not the same town they grew up in. Even they, now, get a little nostalgic about the “way it was.”

(I will have to admit that having family dinners at my place in Summerville really is almost an impossibility on a week night…it takes forever to get here (from Mt. P to Summerville) after work…so my family entertaining has been reduced to a weekend here or there and some holidays.

I think I have adapted to the changes by staying pretty loyal to the “old” Summerville. I find myself still patronizing the restaurants I have since I arrived…places like Continental Corner, Oscars, Eva’s…etc. I usually find out about a new restaurant from my “Mt. Pleasant” family before discovering it myself. We are creatures of habit! My car seems reluctant to travel much farther than the Highway 78 intersection.

It is not that I am opposed to all the new shopping areas closer to the interstate…I enjoy stopping in once in awhile over there to eat, run in a shop, or go to the movies but I always feel like that part of Summerville is an addendum or “add-on” addition…not part of the original design.

After the lovely encounter at FLY boutique (that I wrote about in yesterday’s post) Mollie and I went to Affordables and heard the story behind the change (coming soon) in this store chain’s name to Aiden. Who is this little girl that is behind the name change to Aiden? What is the story? Every store has a story…will wait to tell this one when the name officially changes.

After Mollie and I left Affordables we started strolling down Short Central…my favorite little street in town. I stopped and poked my head in Josephine’s Alterations to say “Hi” to Josephine and thank her for hemming a pair of pants for me for the wedding. Summerville really is the town where you can stop, shop and “everybody knows your name.”

It was, however, an unexpected incident that happened yesterday that reassured me the “little” in the town of Summerville is still alive and well!

I stopped at Coastal Produce for some tomatoes, veggies and fruits ..ending up getting another plant (their plants are so beautiful) and my will-power is weak when it comes to adding to my garden.

It wasn’t until I went to pay that a problem arose. I had changed pocketbooks and left a coin purse with my bank check card in it in the other pocketbook. I still had my American Express however, which normally I only use for larger purchases or trips, but I knew they took American Express so no problem.

Except this time. Jessica tried running it through the machine and told me that she had had problems lately with American Express…she wasn’t sure what was going on…something about a pin number it kept asking for and none of her customers, like me, had a clue either. I apologized for the inconvenience and left the plant and bagged food products on the desk.

Jessica told me not to give it a second thought…I could just pay for them the next time I came in. “We see you in here buying tomatoes and vegetables a lot…we know you will pay us back then.”

Without even asking my name or getting any information…she took a business card…wrote her name…drew a happy face,the amount owed on the back and told me to have a wonderful day!

So until tomorrow…that is exactly what I did. After all, how could I not have a good day…I live in Summerville…where the living is still “little.”

Coastal Produce’s card reads “How Sweet It Is”...and that pretty much sums up my feelings for my hometown.

“Today is my favorite day”  Winnie the Pooh

 

 

 

 

 

About Becky Dingle

I was born a Tarheel but ended up a Sandlapper. My grandparents were cotton farmers in Laurens, South Carolina and it was in my grandmother’s house that my love of storytelling began beside an old Franklin stove. When I graduated from Laurens High School, I attended Erskine College (Due West of what?) and would later get my Masters Degree in Education/Social Studies from Charleston Southern. I am presently an adjunct professor/clinical supervisor at CSU and have also taught at the College of Charleston. For 28 years I taught Social Studies through storytelling. My philosophy matched Rudyard Kipling’s quote: “If history were taught in the form of stories, it would never be forgotten.” Today I still spread this message through workshops and presentations throughout the state. The secret of success in teaching social studies is always in the story. I want to keep learning and being surprised by life…it is the greatest teacher. Like Kermit said, “When you’re green you grow, when you’re ripe you rot.”
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11 Responses to Still Finding the “Little” in Summerville

  1. Johnny Johnson says:

    You are so right, Mrs. Dingle. We have spread out far and wide since I moved here with my parents in the early 70s, but underneath all the expansion we are still old Summervillians and that will never change! Living the Sweet Life in the Ville!

    • Becky Dingle says:

      So good to hear from you Johnny!!!😁 Isn’t it wonderful to be connected to so many good people ( like you) through a united love of Summerville!

  2. bcparkison says:

    I love this. So many of our small towns aren’t any more and it is kinda sad but also good that they are growing and able to stay with the times.
    Now I’ve got to go find the Atlas and look up your village.

  3. Beth Brewer says:

    Oh the memories that come flooding back! Having been born and raised here, the changes have been immense in my lifetime but I can still walk or ride through the “old” town and remember distinct sights, sounds and smells of my youth. Thanks for all your posts that are so inspiring and thought provoking but especially for this one!

  4. Jo Dufford says:

    Stories about how there are still so many really good people in this world like Jessica is what we need to hear more often. Thanks. I, too, dearly love Summerville and the people in it, and that includes people who have moved here and somehow have fit right into our neighborhoods and hearts. May we always keep that friendly warm feeling of a small town regardless of what the census shows.

  5. lisakunk says:

    I love hearing about small towns or at least the small town feel. My home is Whiteville, NC and it really is a small town. People only know about it if they drive through going to the Brunswick Island beaches. They all know to stop to eat at either Joe’s BBQ or Village Buffet or Dales Seafood. And the downtown still has a drugstore with a soda fountain with swivel seats at the counter. I live in Charlotte, NC and have for the past 31 years and managed to make our little corner of South Charlotte into a village feel. By knowing people from the kids’ schools and our church, we frequently run into folks we know in restaurants or grocery stores. Being a small town girl, I love that quaint feel or people speaking and smiling.

  6. lisakunk says:

    Thanks Becky. A Road trip is a great idea. If you do, you should check out our best kept secret, Lake Waccamaw 11 miles from Whiteville on 74 heading to Wilmington. Worth it.

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