“Wherever You are,There is Something You Love”

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Dear Reader:

For over a year I have been reading and re-reading A. A. Milne’s classic book: Now We Are Six. The perfect birthday gift for a child turning six. And that is just what Eva Cate will do on April 27.

The introduction to the little book says it all: “What a wonderful feeling it is, to know that wherever you are …there is something you love.”  Isn’t that true of all our favorite books (the power and beauty of reading)…no matter where we go…if the beloved book accompanies us…there will be something there to love.

A few months ago I showed the book to Anne and shared with her the popular poem that brings ending to the little book of rhymes, prose, and anecdotes. Appropriately it is called: “The End”

When I was One,

I had just begun.

When I was Two,

I was nearly new.

When I was Three,

I was hardly Me. 

When I was Four.

I was not much more. 

When I was Five,

I was just alive.

But now I am Six, I’m as clever as clever

So I think I’ll be six now for ever and ever. 

………………….

I told her that I remember our first grade class memorizing the little ditty for a parent presentation. The class was broken up into five groups…each group stepping forward saying their line until (the big finale) the whole class came back with “But now I am six. I’m clever as clever…so I think I’ll be six now for ever and ever.”

I must have been in the “When I was one…I had just begun” group because I remember wearing a baby head bonnet and holding a baby rattler. Funny, the things we remember.

I asked Anne one day (months ago) when she was over if she could write the poem out on some art paper and perhaps draw something that included Eva Cate in the background…then I would mat and frame it for her birthday. Anne readily agreed and kept asking me to remind her when the birthday drew near. Suddenly, last week, she appeared with this amazing watercolor….the artwork that will live forever in mine and Eva Cate’s heart.

She took this photo of Eva Cate from the blog and then turned it into this….

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 Unbelievable…what a treasure for the memory books! Now Eva Cate will always be “frozen” at age six for eternity! I plan to give it to her for her kindergarten graduation present April 28…the day after her official birthday.

I am going to miss her party since it is the weekend before her birthday and that is when Matthew gets married. Isn’t time strange that way…for three weeks I have sat here basically staring at the walls and then this upcoming week (and the following) are filled to the brim with more activities that one can shake a stick at. Such is life!

So until tomorrow…Let us all remain “six” forever in our hearts…no matter what our mirrors tell us.

“Today is my favorite day”  Winnie the Pooh

27044772_1_140*A BIG SHOUT-OUT to my daughter Mandy who won the coveted Nicole Barrett IB (International Baccalaureate) Award for 2016… for excellence in teaching  and accelerated learning at Buist Academy.

Mandy was on such a high and then was faced with the reality of Charleston County budget cuts…of which the special areas (art, music, P.E etc.) are taking a big hit. *I still can’t figure out how Charleston can “lose” 180 million dollars from its budget….where did it run to? Please keep Mandy (and hundreds of Charleston educators facing loss of jobs or displacement due to budget cuts) in your thoughts and prayers. It is stressful and hard on all the families involved. We are in wait and see mode…which is always difficult.

*I had two visitors yesterday to provide a break from myself….loved it. First Susan was in town for Valerie’s Retirement at CSU from the Music Department and she came bearing a beautiful gift….a homemade pound cake with icing. No sooner had she gotten in the car than Gin-g showed up with a slice of Red Velvet cake.

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Friends…I am here to tell you….if one can get “cured” by being “sugar cured” then I am cured!

About Becky Dingle

I was born a Tarheel but ended up a Sandlapper. My grandparents were cotton farmers in Laurens, South Carolina and it was in my grandmother’s house that my love of storytelling began beside an old Franklin stove. When I graduated from Laurens High School, I attended Erskine College (Due West of what?) and would later get my Masters Degree in Education/Social Studies from Charleston Southern. I am presently an adjunct professor/clinical supervisor at CSU and have also taught at the College of Charleston. For 28 years I taught Social Studies through storytelling. My philosophy matched Rudyard Kipling’s quote: “If history were taught in the form of stories, it would never be forgotten.” Today I still spread this message through workshops and presentations throughout the state. The secret of success in teaching social studies is always in the story. I want to keep learning and being surprised by life…it is the greatest teacher. Like Kermit said, “When you’re green you grow, when you’re ripe you rot.”
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6 Responses to “Wherever You are,There is Something You Love”

  1. Johnny Johnson says:

    You hit a sore subject with me today with the possible loss of jobs for teachers! I don’t understand our Country anymore. We are taxed on to of taxes and taxed in those taxes yet our educators lose jobs, our schools cut things like PE, Band, and Art, what will be cut next? Our Government totally underestimates the value of our educators greatly! Without great educators where would we be in this Country? Yet I see tax dollars being used for things like transgender restrooms! Our priorities are all out of whack! I surely will include Mandy and all Teachers in my prayers, we so desperately need them yet they are always put in the back burner! It’s just a shame!

    • Becky Dingle says:

      It is discouraging…teaching used to be the last job where security was paramount…now it too is simply a whim in the overall picture of politics and mis-management.

  2. Sis Kinney says:

    Good Saturday morning, Becky!
    Love, love, LOVE the water color and poem that Anne made for you and Eva Cate! It is perfect and will be treasured, I am sure. How lucky you are to have such an artistic friend! I’d forgotten that Eva Cate and my Bobby share a birthday – albeit many years apart! LOL!!
    Sounds like you’re feeling better, for which we are all grateful, I’m sure! Sure hope the weather down in the low country turns to being nicer so that it will match your new feelings of well-being! Don’t you just abhor feeling “under the weather”?
    Have a marvelous weekend and a grand time at the wedding and Eva Cate’s birthday and graduation! Hard to believe she’s turning six! And I love the A.A. Milne poem as well! Perfect for the occasion! (I still have my mother’s weathered & worm out A.A. Milne books – including Now We Are Six. Timeless, aren’t they?!)
    Much love,
    Sis

    • Becky Dingle says:

      My 1926 copy was revised in 1955 when I was six and everyone who participated in the little skit in first grade received a copy. I treasure it….hope Eva Cate will too! And yes…how blessed I am to have a friend like Anne who loves challenges and love practicing on different projects…they are always fabulous!

  3. Honey Burrell says:

    What a beautiful work of art Anne has created. She is such a talented artist who definitely has a gift! It’s hard to believe Eva Cate will soon be six. I so enjoy watching your babes grow up😄
    I am very proud of Mandy”s honor. She is so talented and will continue to rise. All will be well with her job.I know. It makes me sad that teachers always seem to have to fight such battles. Where would we be without the Arts?
    Happy Saturday!

    • Becky Dingle says:

      Every time there is a financial crisis in education (which is always) poor teachers who happen to be at a wrong place at the wrong time or have not been there long enough fall victim to poor mis-management….good old Charleston and their budgets are a joke…only it isn’t funny when it takes jobs or dumps teachers into unsavory schools to save a buck.

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