Stop…Rest…Reflect

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Dear Reader:

I remember the first time before entering St. Jude’s Chapel of Hope…stopping to read the scripture outside the entrance (one of my favorite verses…and as I recall, Pap, yours too.)

It was the Welcome sign “Everyone Welcome” however, that grabbed my full attention…especially the words under it….stop – rest- reflect. 

And that is exactly what happened inside the chapel and inside me. My life, as I knew it, up to that moment “stopped.” I felt the weariness and burden of  worry over an on-going sickness dissipate…leaving me feeling more “rested” than I had in a long time. Then, after understanding the story and history behind the chapel’s creation…I took time to “reflect” on the miracle behind this mountain chapel in the hills.

It was that very day that I first grasped the idea that, not only were miracles real, they happened on a constant basis in all our daily lives. But in order to “see” them we first have to believe in the Creator behind them.

We have to believe in a power so far beyond the human capacity to comprehend…we have to believe in the greatest power on earth – LOVE. God is Love. We can not separate the two words…they are one and the same. My first epiphany.

The “Presence” I felt that late afternoon… sitting in the little chapel with lengthening shadows streaking the walls within… (like a crystal prism) from the stained glass windows…has never left me. What I felt was LOVE. Unconditional love!

And it is that love that  draws me back year after year to St. Jude’s Chapel of Hope. I need to partake of that nourishment of love…to envelope my body and soul in it…to last me until the next visit.

On most of my return trips lately…one or more of the Ya’s have gone with Honey and me to the chapel. Like myself…they, too, are pulled back to this special place and want to capture the peace and stillness (beyond description) found there. (It is well worth the trip to do so.)

It was on our last return to St. Jude’s Chapel of Hope that something quite special happened. It has taken me a few months to absorb the enormity and uniqueness of a few moments that all of us shared together.

At some point in the last couple of years…someone has left a jug with healing waters from Lourdes in one corner of the room. This time…without any questioning…we shared a blessing while sprinkling the other with the healing water.

Besides the blessing uttered for each of us…there was complete silence. Complete reflection. It was nothing we later talked about…it just was… the power of living in the moment and everything that defines that thought.

For all of us…facing our own demons in the form of  “illnesses” and personal challenges…this bond of united strength, through friendship, was felt…along with pure love…for our fellow man…through Christ.

Enough said. Some happenstances in life don’t require discussion or conversation…they just require a prayer of gratitude for a special moment shared with friends.

It is amazing what can happen when we let go of our human inhibitions and let God lead us to His world of compassion and reassurance that He is in charge and everything is just the way it should be…it is all good.

So until tomorrow….“I will lift up my eyes until the hills from whence cometh my help.”

From the photo below…you can only imagine, especially in the fall, how those words take on a deeper meaning by the beauty that surrounds you…

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 “Today is my favorite day”  Winnie the Pooh

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HAPPY BIRTHDAY LEE AND MARCIA!!!! Just think…both of you were born on Robert E. Lee’s birthday….no doubt both parents shared the same excitement…Lee, a southern boy, and Marcia…a northern gal! Lee even got his name from the southern general and I have no doubt Marcia’s middle name must be Lee too. Right Marcia?

* With I-26 a parking lot near the Summerville Exit (John and Mandy/children returning from the Riverbanks Zoo in Columbia Saturday afternoon pulled in for a much needed bottle for Jake and ear plugs.

Eva Cate and I got to play…there are no such words as Stop-Rest- Reflect in a four year old’s dictionary…so play we did!

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About Becky Dingle

I was born a Tarheel but ended up a Sandlapper. My grandparents were cotton farmers in Laurens, South Carolina and it was in my grandmother’s house that my love of storytelling began beside an old Franklin stove. When I graduated from Laurens High School, I attended Erskine College (Due West of what?) and would later get my Masters Degree in Education/Social Studies from Charleston Southern. I am presently an adjunct professor/clinical supervisor at CSU and have also taught at the College of Charleston. For 28 years I taught Social Studies through storytelling. My philosophy matched Rudyard Kipling’s quote: “If history were taught in the form of stories, it would never be forgotten.” Today I still spread this message through workshops and presentations throughout the state. The secret of success in teaching social studies is always in the story. I want to keep learning and being surprised by life…it is the greatest teacher. Like Kermit said, “When you’re green you grow, when you’re ripe you rot.”
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6 Responses to Stop…Rest…Reflect

  1. Sis Kinney says:

    Good Monday morning, Becky!

    I LOVE to hear your stories about YOUR encounters at the Chapel of Hope and I am SO looking forward to getting there myself in the near future. I really do not want to go in this chilly weather, so it looks like I won’t be able to get there until late spring or early summer. (The closing on our house in Fuquay-Varina is set for Feb. 9th and I’m also SO looking forward to that; however, that will mean we’ll be in FV getting it all settled for awhile.) But I am determined to get there!

    And I also LOVE to see all the pix you post of your darling grandchildren. It’s amazing: we’ve all seen Eva Cate since she was teeny tiny – and now she’s four, soon to turn five! (She shares a birthday with my husband!) They grow up too fast, don’t they.

    Keep blogging on; you are just the right thing to read in the morning and I know I’m not the only one who believes this. And, Happy Martin Luther King, Jr. day. Bobby says he’s going to celebrate this special day by going to the mountain top – Grandfather, of course. Guess I’ll tag along! It’s not supposed to be too terribly cold today (but it’s ALWAYS colder up on Grandfather!).

    • Becky Dingle says:

      Sis! So great to hear from you..Grandfather Mountain sure brings back memories when Honey and I followed Gloria Houston’s Year of the Perfect Christmas Tree and Miss Ruthie right up to the bridge and beyond. However, today…BURR! But a terribly nice thing to remember Martin Luther King.I had forgotten that your husband and Eva Cate share a birthday. Love it…yes…she will turn five this April 27…God is so good! Bundle up warm!

  2. Pat Jackson says:

    Oh how I love Chapel of Hope! What a special place!!! Our visits have been so meaningful! Your articles always bring them back! Such a quiet peaceful place! Thanks for all your great articles!!!! Mrs Honey is our blessing and I miss her!!!

    Pat McTeer Jackson

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  3. Brooke says:

    What a powerful moment for the 3 of us. Reading this brought it all back..no words needed as you said. Ready to go back to that special little chapel. LOVE

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