There are Two Times of the Year…Autumn and Waiting for Autumn

Dear Reader:

While we have all been anxiously watching weather reports for the past few days on Hurricane Irma…Fall “snuck” into the Lowcountry.

(When I checked to see if “snuck’ was a real word I was assured that it was a ‘non-standard’ past tense of sneak acceptable only as part of the language pattern in North America. Do say! It seems all so very proper to me…but it concluded by saying “snuck” sneaked into the American vocabulary of colloquialisms.)

So once again…I re-iterate…Fall ‘snuck’ in while we were otherwise preoccupied with Irma.

*Update from the Charleston area here…as Irma turns more west…our situation is improving considerably…and while I actually slept the best sleep I have had in awhile (after Tommy texted me around 11:00 Thursday night)…I also have felt a type of “Pre-survivor’s guilt” (even before Irma hits)… because I realize that as I am becoming more cautiously optimistic I know others are looking on in apprehension at the shift.

Still Irma is fickle and certainly no one is ‘out of the woods’ until it arrives and leaves.

The humidity has lowered to the point where I can actually walk in the garden and not come back drenched in perspiration. In fact, amazingly enough, it was actually a little (dare I say it?) a tad chilly while walking in the garden yesterday morning around eight. The most delicious feeling! The first feel of the first hint of fall.

It still warms up in the day but the evenings and mornings are spectacular! I followed butterflies in the garden yesterday and then took time to take photos of some of our older historic homes in the neighborhoods not far from my teaching Alma Mater…Alston Middle School. I spent almost 30 years of my teaching career there and feel very blessed to have done so.

Yesterday I was plucking yellow leaves

off the morning glory vines and started

chuckling to myself when I remembered

one gardening book say ‘yellow leaves

are to plants and vines  like gray hairs

are to humans…keep plucking!’

The blue skies are such a brilliant blue now… as only autumn can produce after banishing the thick humidity obscuring the sapphire skies. The fictitious town of Three Pines might be famous for their tall White Pines…but Summerville (“Flowertown in the Pines”) has its tall pines too.

I live in one of the older subdivisions in town that have produced these “Hugo Survivor” Tall Tall Pines. (While beautiful…you can see how daunting they look during hurricane season…The thought of these pines falling on your house is disconcerting.) *See how tiny my garden looks below.

Autumn has always been my favorite season…not because so many of the family members share fall birthdays …but because of the temps and beauty of the season…and certainly those unique smells associated with it…”toasting s’mores, bonfires, leaves, pumpkin pies, baked turkey, costumes, jack o’lanterns, candy corn…the list goes on and on.

Last year, however, was the first time I was ready to see fall go….While in the midst of getting my cataracts removed and new lenses put on at the end of August…I discovered one small spot on my breast bone that turned out not to be  scar tissue (like my surgeon initially thought) but my “little c” breast cancer returning. (After being in “stabilization” for almost four years.)

On the morning that tropical storm Hermine hit Charleston Mandy and Jackson were taking me to a 6:00 a.m. appointment for exploratory surgery. At first it looked promising…the margins came back clear…but only two weeks later the cancer appeared under my left arm where it started originally.

So that lead to the hormone/chemo oral medications that I am on now. It is definitely slowing things down somewhat but not eradicating it from the surface like the other drug did…still I am just thankful for the “pause” and pray it continues.

So until tomorrow… Right now I just want to enjoy every moment of this fall this year…making the most of every day of it…from fall decorations to planting mums to ‘Racing for the Cure’.  Autumn represents the best of times for me…so let’s all get out there and enjoy it. (especially after Irma gets out of here)

“Today is my favorite day”  Winnie the Pooh

 

*Please keep Anne Peterson in your prayers…she got an insect bite a few days ago that later became infected, went to the doctor and got antibiotics…but as of yesterday it was still infected and did not look good at all…or obviously feel good either!

** She went to see a medic friend from church who specializes in wounds and got her foot cleaned up and out, and looking better. She still has to give it time to heal but no doubt your prayers will certainly assist in this stage. Thank you.

 

 

About Becky Dingle

I was born a Tarheel but ended up a Sandlapper. My grandparents were cotton farmers in Laurens, South Carolina and it was in my grandmother’s house that my love of storytelling began beside an old Franklin stove. When I graduated from Laurens High School, I attended Erskine College (Due West of what?) and would later get my Masters Degree in Education/Social Studies from Charleston Southern. I am presently an adjunct professor/clinical supervisor at CSU and have also taught at the College of Charleston. For 28 years I taught Social Studies through storytelling. My philosophy matched Rudyard Kipling’s quote: “If history were taught in the form of stories, it would never be forgotten.” Today I still spread this message through workshops and presentations throughout the state. The secret of success in teaching social studies is always in the story. I want to keep learning and being surprised by life…it is the greatest teacher. Like Kermit said, “When you’re green you grow, when you’re ripe you rot.”
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9 Responses to There are Two Times of the Year…Autumn and Waiting for Autumn

  1. ambikasur says:

    Hi Becky… I was just scrolling through facebook, when I cam across this article by Max Lucado. Its about surviving the hurricane IRMA. I thought you should read it. here’s the link. Stay safe, loads of love n prayers for all.
    http://www.foxnews.com/opinion/2017/09/08/max-lucado-hurricane-irma-is-coming-where-is-god.html

    • Becky Dingle says:

      Ambika…how thoughtful…can’t help but think what a small world we live in when you can send a message of prayers for us here in the lowcountry from Dubai about a storm…It just shows us a sliver of the magnitude of God’s World.

  2. bcparkison says:

    Without God there is no hope. Every where we turn there is something or someone in trouble and in need of His healing hand. Becky, take care of yourself and be safe.

  3. Sis H Kinney says:

    Good Saturday morning, Becky!
    The weather has been amazingly wonderful these past few days, hasn’t it?! While we haven’t had the dense humidity you have in the Low Country we, too, have had somewhat cooler mornings and evenings, with wonderfully warm and sunny days. I was even able to go to the pool yesterday with the grandkids, when they all came over to “help me pack.” Again this morning, it’s a bit cooler. So, fall is most definitely on its way in. While I always hate to see summer end, I do relish everything that fall brings.
    It’s nice to know that Summerville and the greater Charleston area are probably out of danger of being horribly affected by Hurricane Irma. However, I just looked at the update on it and it appears we, in the mountains, are now in that “cone of uncertainty.” Hopefully, the winds will have diminished enough so that we will only experience heavy rains; but even that can be troublesome – believe it or not – to some of the areas in the mountains, due to rising river waters and flash floods. So, prayers for ALL affected by the hurricane should continue. Will also add Anne to my prayers.
    Much love on this beautiful day! Stay safe and know you’re in my prayers as well.
    Sis

    • Becky Dingle says:

      Sis….you know you have all our prayers….watching the 11:00 weather update here this morning…and praying that the possible hope that this monster could head back out to sea is actually a possibility…to think the vast majority of the people living on the mainland could be spared is overwhelming…as usual it is the waiting that is so difficult. Prayers to safe-keeping for all God’s children

  4. Anne Peterson says:

    What REALLY helped was the luscious spaghetti dinner you delivered. Thank you, my friend!

  5. Becky Dingle says:

    My only cuisine left that I fix…glad you enjoyed!

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